Author: Tokyogrrl

Sex in a Japanese outdoor bath [FM]

I absolutely love onsens (Japanese hot springs). And I have always wanted to go to a ryokan (which is like a Bed and Breakfast+Dinner) with an outdoor onsen with a lover.

I convinced [my then bf S](https://www.reddit.com/user/Tokyogrrl/comments/jwi584/my_sexual_experience_with_a_japanese_american/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) to spend a weekend in a well known hot spring area that is a couple of hours away from Tokyo. I booked a small but upscale ryokan with a private outdoor bath in each room. When we arrived at the inn, the owner madam in a kimono greeted us and showed us to our room. It was a spacious and modern beautiful Japanese style room with tatami floors, with pastel and neutral colors. Outside our window was a terrace and an outdoor hotspring bath (basically a hot tub built in the ground). The madam let us pick the yukatas that we like (a traditional Japanese lounger wear, kind of like a lighter fabric kimono) to wear during our stay. She explained the room amenities and left the room, stating they will come back to bring us our dinner. Read more »

My first time with a Caucasian metrosexual man [MF]

(Disclaimer : I [F] don’t have much kinky stories to tell , and this is more or less about vanilla sex so might be boring for some readers…but please read on if you are interested to learn about the sexual experiences of an otherwise timid old skool Asian girl??‍♀️)

For me, the first time I have sex with a partner is usually the most memorable…so full of lust and anticipation. With that, I would like to recount the first sex I had with my past partners here.

Even though the title may insinuate (since I couldn’t think of any other creative title?) , this post really has nothing to do with race, other than the fact that this partner happened to be Caucasian. I don’t have any sort of fetish or qualms about race/ethnicity; in fact, I really dislike being stereotyped as an Asian girl. For me, it was more about opportunity, and since I lived most of my life in Japan I naturally had more chances to meet Asian men. I believe there certainly is a difference from a cultural perspective on how sex is perceived but I won’t be discussing that much here in this posting… Read more »

[FM] I always fantasized about massage leading to sex… and it happened

( This is a recount of an experience from several years ago. Some lengthy details, so please skip to ** for the more sexy parts…)

I(F) have always loved massage therapy, and I often used to go to reflexology and aroma massage salons in Tokyo. I typically choose a female masseuse so that there is no awkwardness, but I secretly always had a fantasy of getting a professional massage which led to sexy time…

But since that sounded unethical (although I know such services exist), I started looking for Sensual Massages. There were no real salons that advertises that, but I found a few private masseuses who offer such services. I found a male masseuse who seemed trustworthy, had great reviews and operated in the vicinity of my neighborhood. We exchanged a few emails and I filled out a survey detailing out my pain areas and what I want to achieve through the massage. One of the questions was if he could use his mouth and tongue as part of his service so I marked “Yes”. Read more »