I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Final, Very Long

[Part 1](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/slmt65/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 2]( https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smedcz/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 3](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smi0xi/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 4](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smxo7r/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 5](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/snaton/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 6](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/soubb7/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 7](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/spe88d/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Bonus Flash Forward Funny Story](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/so2lgw/my_fiance_found_the_one_girl_i_was_not_ok_with/)

 

I actually had to delete this the first time I posted it because something just didn’t feel right. Something was missing, and I couldn’t put my finger on it. Then I realized, I felt like I had to artificially make it special at the end to avoid anticlimax (pun… intended?).

 

But, that’s not only antithetical to my writing philosophy of authenticity, the fact is I can’t dress up this story like prose in a novel with defined character arcs etc. This was my first time having sex. Some of it was exceptional and some of it was amateurish. I believe, or at least I think, that that’s part of the appeal. We’ll see.

************

 

I wish I could say I was dignified about it. But when Cat pulled my cock out and grabbed it fully in her hand for the first time, the first time another person had ever touched my dick, I almost [jumped out of my skin.](https://youtu.be/5VBriRtl_aM)

 

I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Part 8, Very Long

[Part 1](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/slmt65/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 2]( https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smedcz/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 3](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smi0xi/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 4](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smxo7r/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 5](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/snaton/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 6](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/soubb7/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 7](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/spe88d/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

 

I wish I could say I was dignified about it. But when Cat pulled my cock out and grabbed it fully in her hand for the first time, the first time any other person had ever touched my dick, I almost [jumped out of my skin.](https://youtu.be/5VBriRtl_aM)

 

Alright, here it comes. I’m fine. My size is fine. 6 inches is slightly above average and I’m very content with my girth. Very.

 

So was Cat.

 

“Oooohhhh.” She said as she took it out. Then she touched it and my body literally involuntarily jumped up like I’d just been electrified. Cat was terrified for a split second then started fucking laughing.

 

“Holy shit.” I could barely breathe. I have no reasonable scientific explanation for my reaction. Just a totally new physical sensation on my most sensitive erogenous zone, on top of the hours, or days, of build up and anticipation.

 

Cat was giggling, it didn’t ruin the mood but it was a detour.

I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Part 7, Very Long

[Part 1](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/slmt65/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 2]( https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smedcz/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 3](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smi0xi/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 4](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smxo7r/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 5](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/snaton/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 6](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/soubb7/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Bonus Flash Forward Funny Story](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/so2lgw/my_fiance_found_the_one_girl_i_was_not_ok_with/)

 

TRIGGER WARNINGS

This escalates very quickly into domination, degradation, and power/ control play and could be upsetting. Everything that happens was probably unwise because we were rushing into things in a very reckless way but we were young and horny and stupid and we talked about it all exhaustively after the fact multiple times and then stayed together for 4 years.

Just be warned.

***************

 

To my understanding there’s two types of eating pussy.

 

There’s the general, “I’m really good at eating pussy” type of pussy eating.

 

And then there’s the specialist, “I’m OK at eating pussy but I’m PERFECT at eating one SPECIFIC pussy” type of pussy eating.

 

I’d like to think I’m alright at pussy eating. But that’s a high intensity competition, and I’m not interested in trying my luck against a tournament bracket that stacked with high ELO ratings.

 

I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Part 6, Very Long

[Part 1](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/slmt65/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 2]( https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smedcz/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Part 3](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smi0xi/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 4](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/smxo7r/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/?)

[Part 5](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/snaton/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

[Bonus Flash Forward Funny Story](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/so2lgw/my_fiance_found_the_one_girl_i_was_not_ok_with/)

 

**A necessary preface**

 

If you’ve made it this far I hope you’ll stick with me. I need to address something. The temptation not to write this part is very strong. Honestly, it’s been hard to keep writing at all before I reckoned with this. Cat and I have been separated for years and revisiting these memories is a strong cocktail of both joy and pain.

 

I asked her for permission before I name dropped her but u/AllTheBoysIveFckedB4 specifically was a direct inspiration for me. Her skill, humor, insight, self-awareness and above all authenticity and courageous vulnerability helped me understand that there was a lot more growth and healing to be done getting involved in this whole sharing sex stories thing than I had ever anticipated or imagined. I believe that my striving for as much authenticity and sincerity in my writing as possible is what a lot of people connect with, and it’s in large part what has enabled me to begin re-evaluating my feelings about these experiences. I want to honor that and not decline in quality, selfishly mainly for my own well-being. To do that though I have to dig a little deep.

She [F] asked if I’d [M] let her peg me (I didn’t)

Another quick funny story to distract me before I continue my main story series.

 

You know those tests people give you, where they’re trying to make you admit you wouldn’t still be with them if xyz happened?

 

What if I lost an arm?

What if I cut all my hair?

What if I gained weight?

What if i lose my sex drive?

 

You know, [that shit](https://youtube.com/shorts/v4KS1lyytHs?feature=share)

 

1 You can still do a lot with one arm.

 

2 Charlize Theron looks hot as fuck in Mad Max.

 

3 That’s a highly subjective thing to each person’s preferences but I don’t hate some extra healthy weight, a little bit of a beer belly on a girl can be pretty sexy actually. But if you get obese I’m breaking up with you (she hit me).

 

4 Babe, we both know *I’d* lose my sex drive *waaaaayyy* before you did you fucking slut. (She was about to hit me, then nodded and said “yeah you right”).

 

[M]y [F]iance found the one girl I was NOT ok with her fucking

No one gets laid in this story. That’s kinda the point.

 

I needed to take a break from writing the long series about first hooking up with my former fiance. I decided to write a quick and easy story about this really funny conversation we had where our very open and honest communication backfired on me pretty hard.

 

After we’d been together for a while and were much more used to being a couple, had lived together for a long time, and were really involved in each other’s lives, we had established a rule.

 

I identify myself as demisexual, which can mean slightly to very different things for each individual. For me, in short, brief, layman’s terms, it means I only fuck people I’m bonded with emotionally, and I’m so sensitive about it that I literally can’t see myself ever so casually hooking up with anyone or dating more than one person at a time, but that is specifically just for me as an individual and does not apply to the people I date. Conversely some who identify as demisexual really, really need exclusivity in their partnerships.

 

I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Part 2, Very Long

Side note: my dog was so excited when she saw me setting up to write. She knows when I put on the lofi it’s time to get comfortable for a couple hours. https://imgur.com/gallery/A6vg90Z

 

This is going to be one of those threads that I think benefits greatly from context from previous parts of the story. If slow buildup isn’t your thing I think you might need to shop elsewhere. Cheers though.

 

[Part 1](https://old.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/slmt65/i_m_went_from_a_virgin_one_week_to_a_dom_being/)

 

So I was confused, but enjoying myself. I was so excited I felt kind of sick, like, light headed, and my hands were quavering ever so slightly as I slowly put my arms around Cat for the first time. She was very still, but didn’t let me go. Only a few seconds passed like this, and she later told me she was pretty much thinking, “Shit, fuck, what did I just do? What the fuck am I doing?” Followed by, “Mmm, he smells really nice.”

 

A dab of cologne, just a dab in the right spot. And bathe regularly. Smell is such a powerful sense and has so many ties to sensuality. More on that later.

I [M] went from a virgin one week, to a dom being bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next week [F] Part 1, Very Long

This was getting so long, I had to break it into parts. No dirty stuff yet, but my hope is that it won’t be disappointing. Up front, my writing style tends to be based on build up and development, but while this story has a slow burn at first, it keeps escalating up a cliff until it dives off the edge head first. Mostly in a good way. No judgement if this story is not your style.

 

My former fiancé and I broke up years ago, and although I’m much happier now that we’re split I think constantly about our sex life. In that respect, we were basically a perfect match. r/gonewildstories has been on my regular reading list for a long time, and I can’t really help but want to contribute to some of the great content, both educational and stimulating.

 

In short, I went from a virgin one week, to a dom getting bitten, scratched, and begged for sex the next.

 

I want to start by saying the important fact that plenty of people get into kink and bdsm just in the normal course of their lives. My experience absolutely is not typical and should not be taken as reinforcement of the stereotype that kink origins are exclusively linked to trauma.