I was a latecomer to sex… I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 19, and after that I really didn’t have much sex or much interest in it until I started going out with my last boyfriend. He had a very high sex drive and we ended up fucking 3-4 times whenever he saw me, and was constantly talking about fantasies and ideas and things he wanted to do. As a result, I found that I really enjoyed just pure, simple sex, and so when we broke up a few weeks ago I soon realised I wanted more of it.
One thing we talked about but never arranged was him watching me with older men – I’ve always been into older guys (I’m 23, my ex was 30, and I lost my virginity to a 39 year old), and talking about that fantasy really turned me onto the idea.
This idea wouldn’t go away, and so a few days ago I signed up to a swingers site that my boyfriend had previously signed us up to but never went anywhere with. Once I’d registered and verified I got bombarded with messages… most of them rude, or impatient, or just dick pics, but I also heard from some interesting guys.