I am a girl of 21 and at the suggestion of a friend started Tinder. It was in the first place for some funny chats and to get a little more self-confidence by the number of likes. After a few weeks I started myself a number of conversations, including those with V. V is a guy who is one year younger than me and who studies in the same city. We started chatting and because he was curious about me in a friendly way, I began to tell quite private stories, which probably encouraged him to ask me to meet up sometime. I thought to myself: "Why not L? It can be an enjoyable evening and otherwise don’t stay long and go home".
So we had a date and agreed: “I take care for the drinks, you take care of the fun". I thought nothing ambiguous in that comment, but later I realized that there is room for interpretation in that quote. With a bottle of wine in my hand, I was waiting at the square where we would meet. When we finally found each other, I had become a little nervous, but excited. Luckily we started pretty quickly to talk easily when we arrived at his dorm, so I relaxed.