So, I’ve always been aware that women have…broader erogenous zones than men do. You can touch them gently in relatively innocuous areas and get a strong response. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to start with these zones before moving on to more obvious ones. The small of her back, the inside of her thigh, the point of her hip, her rib cage. All of these are great to slowly build tension.
I’ve never realized how strong the response can be til I started seeing my current girlfriend. I can damn near bring her to orgasm with a backrub. Particularly alternating between firm deep massaging with gentle finger touches, soft breathing, and gentle kisses up and down her back. It is perfect for teasing and she will usually begin pushing her butt into my cock to tease me back, and ultimately to take me inside of her.