Me and my boyfriend have been together now for almost 8 months. This was my first serious relationship, and I should probably note that I was a complete virgin before meeting him. Don’t get me wrong, I know a lot about sex and I knew I wanted to have it, I just didn’t feel comfortable enough with anyone up until I met him. And when I met him, let me tell you- my sex drive sky-rocketed. Even now, my libido is MUCH higher than his. This isn’t a problem, per-say, he satisfies me perfectly well. As soon as we got into a relationship, we pretty much hit it off right away in the bedroom. Despite being in a relationship with a girl before me, he wasn’t very confident and felt inexperienced (his girlfriend wasn’t very open to anything sexual). This was foreign to him and I could tell he didn’t want to make me uncomfortable, so I kind of led the first half of our sexual experiences- without any experience myself- and it worked! He isn’t very good with communication whether it be emotionally or sexually, and that’s fine- it’s just how he is. I’m perfectly fine with telling him what feels good, what doesn’t and vice versa.