I have a thing for domination, not just physically but psychologically (although I hate the whole dungeon and leather aesthetic). The thing that turns me on more than anything else is discovering the secret fantasies a girl has that she is actually afraid of having. You know, those desires that she can’t believe she has and locks them away deep down and doesn’t want to fall down the rabbit hole by letting them out.
Findig those then using domination and seduction to get her to the point where she can’t resist when you start making those fantasies a reality. It’s that look in her eye, a cross between fear of going beyond the point of no return and insatiable lust to do so.
In this case I had been seeing this girl for a few months and I knew she had a thing for exhibitionism that she had shyly mentioned once or twice after a bit too much to drink but would insist the next day that she never actually wanted to go through with it.