So a little back story, I’m in the military and I met my 2 best friends about 3 years ago before I had gotten married. I’m a female and my 2 friends are a male and female, the male being married also. We can call the male Ken and the girl Allie. So me and Ken used to hang out a lot while we were engaged to our spouses and married around the same time. Allie was always there for me as emotional support and was the link between me and Ken being such great friends. Anyways, I always kinda had a crush on Ken because he’s super cute and the way he talks to me was always borderline flirting, but he didn’t mean anything by it, it just always gave me a good feeling.