For years I always came right before my wife had her orgasm. I just needed another 10 seconds but my wife is crazy hot. Then I started watching more porn and edging myself for long period of time. Then one day after a few years I could orgasm back to back because my cock won’t get soft after the first orgasm. It doesn’t stay rock hard, but it’s definitely not down. Its critical my wife listen to me and do as I say after I cum the first time so it becomes rock hard again. It is hard to accomplish but over the years we got it down.
Let’s be honest most men cum before the woman so now that I can keep my cock up for a couple more minutes my wife always cums.