I posted a question on r/swingers and someone asked I post the actual story so I think this is the place to put it. So here goes. Long story but I like details.
Background: Me: 6’1, 215lbs. Brown hair brown eyes. Wife: 5’5 140lbs, 34Cs and a great ass. Blonde hair blue eyes. My wife and I met in college and have been married about 10 years now. We had some fun threesome experiences in college but stopped after we married. A few months ago we got into some heavy dirty talk during sex about our previous threesomes and how hot we both found it, and then discussed afterwards about if we actually felt that way. Anyway we wanted to explore the option but didn’t want to go in too heavy so we talked about opening up to a third or soft swapping with a couple, then reevaluate after.