The husband and I had a baby about 7 months ago. I’m only just now starting to feel like myself again in most ways but one. I still struggle to get wet because I’m breastfeeding. The hormones it takes to keep your milk supply going can stop you from getting wet so now we have to use lube, and a lot of it, which I hate. I use to get ridiculously wet, all he needed to do was breath on me and I was ready to go, but now it doesn’t matter what preparations are done, I just don’t get wet. And if we skip it or don’t use enough it hurts. And we have started using condoms again.
Now this sucks big time, we just spent almost two years having unprotected sex. We were trying for a baby for a long time and the whole time I was pregnant I was insanely horny and basically became his cum dump! It was so primal and intimate. Even though the job was done it still felt like something was accomplished everytime he finished inside. But now, sex sucks. But not because of the condoms themselves but because of the way he makes me feel for having him use one.