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Background: Me and my wife (Jess) had been going to therapy and working with a therapist and after working on the primary issue we started working mostly of sexual communication. As part of this we took a sexual kink/fetishes/actions survey where we marked this as No, would try if partner wants, would like to do, and done. To help build communication and our sex life she would pick one, at least once every couple weeks, we would discuss it all together (in a safe space) and then depending on that discuss, try it.
Relatively early on the therapist selected anal sex to discuss. At this point in our lives neither my wife or I had ever tried anal. For me it was kind of ‘would like see what it was like, cross it off the list’ type of item and for my wife it was an I’ll guess I will try type thing. We talked about it in front of and with the therapist and my wife was pretty nervous about it and seemed to be leaning against trying it.