This has been more difficult for me to write than I first imagined. I was not expecting the overwhelming response to my account of impregnating the barista at my local coffee shop (you can read that post [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ognat5/i_m_43_knocked_up_a_barista_f_20_at_the_coffee/)) . Many people have asked whether I am as still with my wife and if she knows. I did eventually tell my wife and this is my account of what happened as a result.
My wife and I were going through counseling (something I never thought I would do) prior to this happening. A few years ago we found ourselves at a point where we thought our marriage was going to end. My wife was having an emotional affair with a coworker. It was not something planned, but she was unhappy in our marriage and I was oblivious. I was providing a good life and home, but nurturing and affection was lacking. I think many men miss this. I was under the impression things were good even though I had my own dissatisfaction that I just set aside as part and parcel of being married. I never in a million years thought she would seek affection and attention elsewhere, and neither did she.