[MF] Ambiguous consent: How I first sexed my future wife.

This is the story of the first time I hooked up with the woman who would become my wife. Today, in the #MeToo era, I probably would have done things differently. Thankfully, I read the tea leaves correctly back then.

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I was looking forward to my third date with Sara. And I was really horny. Our first two dates were pleasant, but chaste, and I eager to see how far I could push the envelope for this encounter. Sara was a petite, cute brunette in her late 20s. A recent immigrant to the U.S., she had a vaguely Eastern European accent that only added to her girlish charm.

We had a fun day around the city appeared to cap it off with a nice and late dinner at one of its better restaurants. Sara had parked her car in my luxury condo building, as we were walking back to it, I was telling her about how I had purchased my place only a year prior, when it was first built. The thought occurred to me that this was my moment to test the waters, so I nonchalantly asked if she wanted to take a look around. She replied, “sure, why not?”

[MF] Unplanned [cheating] with a stripper in Vegas

Long-time lurker and this is my first story. Honestly, I don’t even know why I’m writing this all down. Maybe it’s so I’ll always remember what happened. Maybe it’s a way for me to tell someone something that nobody knows about me.

I’m a middle-aged man who’s been married for a number of years. Sex with my wife used to be good; it hasn’t been for many years now for reasons I won’t get into. When we do have sex (infrequently), it’s out of some sense of “duty” on her part. I honestly don’t remember the last time she tried to get an orgasm; she doesn’t want any foreplay and after a few minutes, she just wants to go to sleep. Not saying it is her fault, just that it is what it is, and I’m just hoping that this season of our life will pass.

Anyway, I sometimes go to strip clubs when I’m out of town. My wife knows about it, she knows that some very naked girls get very close to me, and she knows that I like to get handsy. I wouldn’t say she’s exactly encouraging about it, but she figures guys will be guys and as long as I’m not getting naked, and there aren’t any bodily fluids exchanged, she’s not going to complain. Basically, she is just fine not knowing any details of what goes on, so long as I keep things from going too far.