Firstly, thank you all for the feedback, I read all of it and considered it. Some of it was useful and constructive, some was critical but non judgemental, and some was harsh but fair.
So it’s been a while since posts and I’ve gone to write updates several times, but a lot has been happened since so I thought I’d save it for one post.
I’ll start by saying that, though I tried at first to cut my ex, things have since changed and we’re basically fucking whenever my wife is at work and sexting all other times. Read on if you want to know about how we got there….
After retrieving my wife’s underwear and putting them in the wash with some of my clothes to prevent her from noticing, I got a message from Kat.
K: So, how do I become worthy
T: You can’t, sorry. Not gonna happen again
K: I think I can, didn’t you see how willing I can be…
At this point, I decided to take a different tack to this approach, try to take the power back, even if it meant causing a little hurt. I also decided it was best to switch to a more discrete messaging service which unsurprisingly, she had.