Many years ago I (33M, then 23) moved to a new town and ended up picking up a woman (42) who was newly single after a long and messy divorce. She told me she wanted to be a cougar and be slutty now that she’s divorced. She said her kids were with their dad that weekend so she would “educate me”. Before meeting her I’d only experienced the three basic sexual positions and blow jobs with my only gf in college. She was the first person I had anal sex with, first time I ever tried kink, first person I ever came inside of (vaginally, anally or orally), first person I regularly had unprotected sex with, or gave a facial to…and the list could continue. It was arguably hottest experience I could have imagine. We ended up hooking up a few times with her as my “sex teacher” (her words) off an on for nearly two years until I moved. I give her 100% of the credit in my sexual competence.