My boyfriend of four months and I have a wonderful connection in the bedroom. Previous to our relationship, I've been with many other men and women, but never managed to finish with any of them. I attribute it to my general lack of ability to relax and how rigid I tend to be with others. My boyfriend Jack, however, has really made me come out of my shell and learn to enjoy being affectionate with and feeling close to my sexual partners. He also regularly encourages me to tell him what I want and this kind of communication has been fantastic for our sex life! :) Here is the story of the moment I truly thought would never happen… my first orgasm: