26 [MM] I lost a bet to my friend and had to show him my pics/vids of my girlfriend, and ended up blowing him while he viewed them

Last weekend I was hanging out with one of my friends, playing video games and having a few drinks. He was telling me about a girl he had been seeing for awhile and we talked about my girlfriend for a bit. Being very competitive he challenged me to a bet, where if I won a game he’d show me the picture she had sent him the other day if I’d offer the same. I was a bit hesitant but he talked me into it.

I lost a close game and ended up showing him a picture of my girlfriend in lingerie biting her lip seductively. He took a long look and told me I was lucky and how he thought she was attractive. I liked hearing it so I asked more about what he liked and he went on. Excited by it all I challenged him to a rematch offering up the folder where I had all the pictures and videos of her saved. He offered something similar.

27/25 [MF] Opening up our relationship while my gf was abroad went further than I expected

My partner (25F) had a great opportunity to do a sponsored Master’s project that involved a lot of traveling around the East Coast of Africa and Madagascar. Unfortunately it meant we would be apart for quite a while but it was too good of an opportunity to pass up.

Around this time we had started exploring more in the bedroom, she was a bit hesitant at first but was eventually comfortable exploring some bondage/bdsm and eventually having a threesome with another guy. We both really enjoyed the experiences and knew that it was going to be difficult not having that physical part of the relationship. I suggested that she could have her half of the relationship open while she was away, I always enjoyed her getting attention and her being with other guys was a turn on for me (not in a cuckolding way though). So we ended up agreeing to have an open relationship while we were apart.