I [36F] think I probably made Christmas dinner pretty awkward for neighbors I’ve never met! [MF]

Happened yesterday.

I was intending to spend Christmas alone and was totally good with it. Started drinking some red wine about noon and opened up Reddit to find a flirty DM… from my ex husband.

(Useful context: it was a totally amicable split, we are still on good terms and do occasionally still have sex. Also useful context: he’s known for a long time I love Reddit but he’s never been much of a fan so the message was seriously out of the blue.)

He was unexpectedly solo for Christmas Day because some of his family he’d intended to go see came down with Covid.

He lets me know he’s happy to have found me on Reddit and that he’s spent a couple hours going through my history. Said he was super aroused, a bit shocked to learn some things but not surprised, and wanted to know if he could see me.