I made a half-drunk R4R post the other day. Yes, not actually on the 4th of July. I did not get any responses that day. Around 7-something today, I got a message from a woman. She had told me how she has an issue with ghosting and someone she felt really connected to suddenly disappeared. I had the same thing. This user and I who I got attached to were very connected emotionally and physically. We sexted without sending explicit photos and fantasized about what it’d be like to see each other. But one day, she deleted her Reddit and Kik. And I felt so upset. Turns out this user had something similar except they actually exchanged videos. We did not bring this up until later. We talked about our 4th of July at first. Then she mentioned how sexting brings her close to people. I approach sexual activities extremely spiritually as well. They are not mechanisms of self-pleasure but means of bringing people together and getting attached. She said she hasn’t had sex in four years and her BF left her to smoke some weed basically. She also said she couldn’t imagine us getting anywhere romantically. But it was more of a matter that she lacked confidence. Not a lack of interest. So I decided to make a small move. I told her that if she were interested, I would give her an opportunity to redeem herself. I was in the basement playing guitar after getting inspired by a Lynyrd Skynyrd documentary. At least trying to. I wanted to flirt with her and get her off but without touching myself or cumming. As a means of reversing the selfishness of her partner. She objected at first because she feels best knowing she can get someone else off. But I told her not to worry and that I was fine with it. She probably hadn’t really seen me as the link in my R4R post was broken, but drunk me said in it that people think I am kinda hot (I post to ladybonersgonewild and am not in the red so it means something ig). We went to Reddit chat rather than DMs and I reminded her exactly: “Listen. Sweetie. Do not worry about me. I want you to enjoy yourself tonight.”
Author: throawaylol69
[M]y [F]riend came without actual sex.
I was up at 3:15 playing Pokemon last night. My friend texted me. She said “hey hey.” Last Thursday at 1:30 at night, she asked for a walk around campus so I figured that we would do it again. She said she was ready to turn it in for the night though, and she asked me if I could come over. I told her of course. Always love to provide company. Then she started to doubt herself and apologize, even calling herself stupid. I asked her what is wrong. She said she did not want to take advantage of me. I reassured her that I care about her and that whatever I would do would be my choice. Both of us are kinda lost people trying to overcome our own inner demons so I feel close to her in this way. I do want her to feel happy and it would resonate with me the same feelings.
[M]y guy-friends and I watched porn while on an overnight trip with camp. [Light]
This happened about 5 years ago. My camp group was crashing at the Best Westin in the south. We were on the second night in the designated location. My buddies and I were chatting about life and who we wanted to bang in camp. I’ll call them AF and BG. Not gonna dox them. We received a text message in the boy’s chat of our group. We were seniors in the travel program at this time btw. Our friend said “Omg, porn on channel nine.” I yelled at BG to grab the remote. He was skeptical. But he caved in. Here we were now. Three straight males watching Bunny Ranch on TV.
We were looking at things foreign to us. Like transgender women going down on women born that way. I did not really enjoy most of it but porn is porn, boobs are boobs. You know. BG commented “I have the most awkward boner right now.” I did too. My dick was poking out of my jeans. We did not start the show on time but we stuck out 20 minutes of it. Bunny Ranch was some whack shit to say the least but it made my friends and I horny.
[M]y [F]irst Time, Courtesy of Reddit
I cannot say that the night was PERFECT, as it was my first encounter and some mistakes were made. But my partner and I were very enthusiastic about pleasing each other and we enjoyed each other.
The night started with me walking to the station. Kudos to [u/kinky_experimenter](https://old.reddit.com/u/kinky_experimenter) for walking me to the train station last night. I never would’ve known the quickest route there without you. We waited there for a few minutes and then the train pulled up. I was very nervous. After a while, I worried that the train was actually coming in 20 minutes later. But then she showed up and gave me a hug. My friend introduced himself to her. We were all freezing our genitals off outside so we started to walk back. We discussed some of our aspirations and what it’s like at school.
We get back to my dorm. I thank my friend for walking with me (he lives right next door) and my partner and I enter. I am surprised when I start trying to unlock the door. Wouldn’t unlock bc my roommate was there, laying on his bed after a nap. Thought he went home. I felt awkward for a second having him just lay there looking at his phone. Even worse, he had friends waiting by the door for him. My partner and I continued to throw our jackets on my hangers anyway.