Author: ThreeRiversExplorers

[Group] Our first date with M and L

We had an amazing past week of hooking up with one other couple. We had been chatting with this couple who I will call M (husband) and L (wife) for a while now but hadn’t been able to get together due to conflicting schedules.

We finally got together on Wednesday at a Jazz bar which turned out to not be the best location for a first date as we could barely hear each other. My wife is quite tall (5’10”) and loves to wear heels too, though she didn’t for this date because she knew they were a shorter couple and wanted them to feel comfortable. We chose the jazz bar because my wife loves getting dressed up and it was a nice break from the casual-nice we dress for when meeting at breweries. They showed up both dressed to the 9’s in all black and I knew before my greeting hug was over with the wife that I wanted to sleep with her.
We had to lean in towards each other to talk which made some really intimate conversation between the L and I at the table, where our hands ended up rubbing each other’s legs. We both talked later that we were ab it concerned if it was all going to work out between my wife and M because they didn’t have the initial spark that L and I had. I love that anticipation of the date. Not knowing if anything was going to happen, while also feeling the chemistry with the other partner, fills me with electricity. Read more »

Our [MF] first time at a LifeStyle Club

We love taking pictures and video during our playdates but sadly we likely won’t ever really get footage from the best place for swinging: LS clubs. On Saturday night, we went to our first ever LS club event: the PJ party at The Body Shop in Pittsburgh.

We applied and were approved for membership just last week and the biggest immediate benefit has been the huge social aspect of it, where reach couple has their own profile with pics and description of what they want. Being the new fish in the pond, we had a lot of messages coming in, which we were thankful because there are some amazingly hot people who are members.

Over the past week though, we had been chatting with a few different couples and one couple took us under their wing and were able to answer all of our obnoxiously specific questions about the club. Their guidance through chatting during the week though made us feel so much more comfortable once we were in the club. Read more »

[MF] First Solo Play Experience Last weekend

Over the weekend, I (husband) had my first solo play experience. Its something my wife and I had talked about extensively to determine our comfort level. Truth be told, she was probably more comfortable with the idea of it than I was. There was a couple we’ve had several play dates with that we had great chemistry with. That couple had an open relationship where they each dated other people and it provided a great opportunity for us to dip our toes in the water of solo play with my wife out of town on a girls trip. The other husband and wife have their own dynamic going on that I don’t think it’s my place to dive into here but suffice to say it was okay with me going over to see her 1-on-1.

I reached out to the other wife who we’ll call K and she was similarly excited at the idea of having a date. The time got moved around a few times with her busy schedule but eventually landed on me going over to her place last Saturday evening. I spoke with my wife and set some ground rules including her not wanting me to stay the night, which I was fine with. Read more »

[Group] A Very Excellent Valentines

My wife and I have been getting pretty close with another couple recently had a two playdates in the past week. We were all pretty excited to get drinks together after our respective Valentines day dinners. The four of us had a vanilla date out at the gym earlier in the day on Monday and then brunch after. Then we each went home to get ready for dinner. My wife and I had a reservation for a nice dinner downtown, as did the other couple at a different restaurant and then we met after our dinners for some drinks, all looking nice and dressed up. We all had so much fun arriving with our partners but then sitting next to the other and giving those little touches on the back and leg that made other customers look sideways at us.

These cuties got us a valentines day card which was the sweetest thing ever and we graciously accepted their offer to go back to their apartment for the first time. We decided to swap cars on the way over to their place too, so my wife rode in the Other Husband’s (OH) car and the Other Wife (OW) rode with me which was really fun and intimate. She is awesome to her very bones and we had a fun chat the whole back to her place. We got there first and did some light kissing in the car until they pulled up 15 seconds behind us and exchanged a few kisses too. Read more »