[Reposting since I used the wrong tags]
I’ve been meaning to write up some of my personal experiences both for posterity as well as to see if other people enjoy them. This happened earlier this year before FOSTA shut down Craigslist casual encounters in the US.
I’ve used Craigslist over the years as an outlet for my sexual desires without fear of my coworkers, friends, or family discovering my deviant side. It also cuts through societal niceties by targeting a community of people who were also open to something carnal. Normally at a bar I play it safe and am very polite unless I meet a woman who is more forward about her intentions, which is rare. On Craigslist these clean separations allowed me to feel more confident and unencumbered by societal expectations and gave me permission to be direct and sexual since it was implicit. It’s also let me take a shortcut to a few of my sexual bucket list items though I still have many more still to go.
I’ve lost my original posting but there were a few things I tried to do (and often failed) to make my posts stand out in a sea of mostly unintelligent, out of touch, porn addicted, gameless, desperate dick pic postings that are the norm.