I just wanted to apologize if there are any grammatical errors. I am writing this on my phone and people in this sub make it look too easy lol.
This all happened when I was 20 and had just gotten out of my first real relationship. A little about me: I grew up a very overweight child, but at the end of highschool I lost a ton of weight to play college basketball. I was now 6’3 195lbs and was told I was very attractive. Except I was still that same fat kid at heart.
Just like any newly single 20 year old guy, I took to tinder and was having a great time receiving a lot of attention. One night while I was at my apartment with my best friend I ended up changing my age settings to 35+ as a joke. To my surprise this extremely hot 40 year old blonde had her Insta on her profile, so I followed her and dm’d her. To my surprise she responded and told me she thought I was very hot and that she wanted to get to know me better. At this point I was freaking out. I had never done anything like this before and felt way out of my comfort zone.