So this falls under the ‘stupid’ end of the risky spectrum, every part of this story is filled with red flags and many points I shouldn’t have gone ahead with this. Still, it’s insanely hot and I managed not to catch any STIs or get murdered so all went well.
So this happened a week ago, I was on Tinder and matched with someone and saw in his profile a pic of him in a group of people, with his arm round a friend of mine, although I’d never seen him before. He messaged me but I didn’t reply, because I figured first I’d send the pic to my friend, see if she thought he was worth talking to, a handy way to avoid if he was creepy. She didn’t reply immediately so the match kind of just got lost amongst all my others. A day later she messaged back and basically said she had gone on two dates with him like 3 years ago, that he was too much of a dick to date, and was way too rough in bed to want as a regular hookup. I was already talking to other people so forgot all about him.