I’ve been doing this since I was 26-ish and Craiglist was a thing, having since moved onto dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.
I’d put out an ad or create my profile to be straight forward and detailed. The CL ads would read something like:
“I’m 6ft 1in, white male, handsome, green eyes and dark hair. Respectful, dominant, and straight forward.
Looking for a woman that would enjoy being my pillow princess. Come over, have a drink or smoke some weed while we break the ice, then let me lead you to the bedroom where I’ll strip you down, give you a massage from your shoulders to your feet, and ultimately provide a sensual release complete with expert oral and gspot massage.
BBWs and Older women are encouraged. I have no race hangups, all are welcome.”
I would get a decent amount of responses and lots of bi/gay men asking to reconsider the offer only being for women.