This guy I worked with was wildly obsessed with me. Texts every day comments on my IG and snap. He must have spent at least 2 hours a day obsessing over me. He was harmless but would physically stalk me, even started going to my gym and would catch me in the parking lot and ask me out weekly. This went on for a few months
One day after the gym he runs up to me and asks me if I want to go to his house for dinner. I gave him a choice.
I basically explained to him that he’s actually a sweet guy and I’m a horrible person but his behavior was unhealthy, however it would be hypocritical of me to judge so i gave him 2 options.
1 you can continue this behavior and I’m going to tolerate you because it’s no inconvenience to me but I’m not going out with you or dating you or anything.
2 you can fuck me but after you have to move on with your life and I’ll block you from everything, you find a new gym and remove me from your life completely.