This is a long post, more for my own documentation than anything else, but thought I’d share. The start of the sexy stuff is clearly labeled so you can scroll to that if you want.
Earlier this year I [29F] ended a very long term relationship. We’d been together since I was in my very early twenties and while we had a great sex life, over the years I’ve come to discover my own interest in BDSM and submission which was not an itch that was fully scratched with him in spite of our chemistry. I have played a fair bit online but never in real life.
Before now, I’d never had a “slutty phase” and have been really enjoying the freedom and fun that I’ve been able to indulge in since I became single and recently moved cities. While it’s a bit later in life than most to have a hoe phase, it’s the perfect time for me now. I am confident in myself, know what I like and want to explore, and also know my boundaries. Being in a new city has allowed me to be a bit more adventurous than I otherwise would be. I’ve been dating a lot and in some cases have fucked on the first date on a few occasions (even doubled my “body count” within a month of moving to my new city👀it was low! Lol) but I knew that if I could muster up the courage to do it, that I would love to find an experienced Dom to experience a proper BDSM scene once and for all, after fantasizing about it for so long.