This happened about 3 years ago. I was 21 and just got my first full-time job out of university. This was a time in my life where there was a lot of drinking and partying because, hey, I can afford it now.
One horny night, I was invited out by a guy I had matched with on Tinder. We’ll call him Antoine.
Antoine is a 32-year-old mixed-race (Canadian/Jamaican) purser based in my city. We had matched for probably more than a month by that time, exchanged texts occasionally and we must have tried to set up a meeting at least twice but due to his being in-and-out of the city, it just never happened. So while I thought he was super cute and hot in his pictures and videos, I simply lost interest.
It was Monday evening. I had just gotten home from work and was almost ready to get into my jammies when I got a text: “I’m in the city, hanging out with some friend in A Jamaican Bar at Some Hotel. Wanna join us?” It was late. I was tired. I was supposed to have work early the next morning but the irresponsible, horny part of my brain thought, “you know what? Fuck it. Let’s meet this guy.”