A few weeks ago I was sent a few hours away to a conference. I posted around to try to find a woman to meet up with me for drinks and maybe some fun. To catch you up to speed, I'm a 40-year-old, married, bisexual, mom who several years ago opened our marriage. Over that time I have been with both men and women.
Anyway, back to the story. I had not been with a woman in awhile. It isn't as easy to find women when you get a little older and you have a "no one local" policy. Guys, on the other hand, are usually no problem. Go figure :)
I got two responses from my posts. One sounded really fishy and my husband said, "no way." The other had some promise. She was local, from the area, married, but was only nineteen. That threw me off. I had never been with someone even remotely that young. My husband more or less said it was up to me if I wanted to respond to her and I kicked around the idea a few hours before I figured I can at least get to know her better.