I [F] Met a fellow redditor [M]at a hotel bar. This is what happened…

I [F] was really in two minds about whether to write about this, I’m half ashamed and half excited by this particular memory. A few months ago I messaged a guy on r/ladybonersgw. His profile said he welcomed PMs. His name was ‘Jake’. Don’t ask me why I messaged other than he was extremely good looking, fit and was in Leicester, UK. I was just out of a relationship with a nice guy who just wasn’t dooning it for me anymore. I had joined dating apps but had some questionable experiences. I travel to Leicester every quarter for a meeting in one of the major hotel chains with colleagues from different offices (I still go so won’t mention which one). I’m female, 29, 5’5, from Seoul originally and 56kg/124 pounds. I’ve had a boob job and on my skinny frame they look GOOD (I Reckon)?. Been living in the UK for 18 years.

This guy is a few years younger, packed full of muscle and very good looking, about 6 foot. So I messaged him and we exchanged pictures and messages over a few months. We got beyond flirty, really filthy messages about what we would do to each other and even on the phone our conversations would descend into talking about how we would get each other to come but we talked a lot about family and friends and work etc also.