A few years ago, I met this girl – “Hannah” – on, of all places, reddit. I post on r/LadybonersGW from time to time (different account) and she liked what she saw. I am significantly older, which she’s also into. I’m 41 now and she is 25. Turns out, we don’t live too far apart. After a while, we hooked up and actually started dating. (PSA: I do not recommend reddit as a dating site, btw, even though it worked for us.)
As things got more serious, and we actually started talking about getting married, we had to figure something out: how to make our particular sexual fetishes sustainable in our relationship. Specifically, I’m pretty dominant, and Hannah is extremely *sexually* submissive to me. It turns her on, and just suits her better, for me to take the lead in almost all things. But she wasn’t sure how she felt about a marriage based on a big power differential like that, long-term. Frankly, neither did I. Didn’t seem sustainable.
And then she proposed something that would kinda balance the scales: what if I “owned” her body, in the way we both liked sexually, but she owned all of the money in our relationship?