How my wife and I arranged our age-inappropriate dom/sub relationship: I own her body. She owns my money. [FM]

A few years ago, I met this girl – “Hannah” – on, of all places, reddit. I post on r/LadybonersGW from time to time (different account) and she liked what she saw. I am significantly older, which she’s also into. I’m 41 now and she is 25. Turns out, we don’t live too far apart. After a while, we hooked up and actually started dating. (PSA: I do not recommend reddit as a dating site, btw, even though it worked for us.)

As things got more serious, and we actually started talking about getting married, we had to figure something out: how to make our particular sexual fetishes sustainable in our relationship. Specifically, I’m pretty dominant, and Hannah is extremely *sexually* submissive to me. It turns her on, and just suits her better, for me to take the lead in almost all things. But she wasn’t sure how she felt about a marriage based on a big power differential like that, long-term. Frankly, neither did I. Didn’t seem sustainable.

And then she proposed something that would kinda balance the scales: what if I “owned” her body, in the way we both liked sexually, but she owned all of the money in our relationship?

Our Father’s Day tradition in our house is I fuck my wife in her ass while she’s locked up for my pleasure. It’s the greatest day of the year. [FM]

For Father’s Day, my wife and I dropped the kids off with her parents and told them we were having an afternoon to ourselves. I thought we were going out for a hike, but instead, my wife turns around the car and takes us right back home. “For your Father’s Day present,” she says.

My wife and I have been together for nine years and have two great kids together. She’s always been an attractive woman, but it’s not like our sex life is turbocharged or anything. (Kids tend to do that!) She looks like a very standard mom of 2 kids in the suburbs. We have an extremely normie lifestyle. So I was sorta expecting some very standard sex or something, which is… fine and all. But that isn’t what happens.

She has me wait downstairs for ten minutes while she goes up to get ready. When it’s time, I come up and open our bedroom door. There, on our bed, my wife is naked but for thigh-high stockings, on her knees and elbows. She has a blindfold on and what looks like a gag in her mouth. And she has managed to clip her wrists into restraints locked up at the top of our headboard. Her freshly shaved pussy and little puckered asshole are offered right up for me.

Just before college, I mowed this older woman’s lawn in exchange for sensual handjobs [MF]

I remember this clear as day, since it’s like Exhibit 1 in my memory’s spank bank.

So I turned 18 over the winter of my senior year in high school. (I’m in my mid-20s now.) That spring, I didn’t have a job lined up for the summer before starting college, so I basically started doing yardwork around our (big) subdivision.

Ms. Smith (not using her real name) lives a few streets over and has known my parents since we were little. She hired me to come mow her lawn, cut her bushes, that sort of thing. Ms. Smith was really pretty – she was 52, in decent “mom” shape, blonde highlights. Played lots of tennis and did yoga, that sorta thing. Not skinny, but curvy in a really womanly way. Big breasts. Her two daughters were home from college for the summer (she was divorced), but usually out of the house for the day at jobs.

I met my 18-year-old high school cheerleader fuck buddy on reddit. [MF]

Rewind to last fall. One night, bored, I responded to some post on this sub by a “girl” who said she’d only recently turned 18 and she secretly loved sexting with older men. Yeah right – right? But she eventually PMed me back, and we got to chatting. “Julie” (not real) and I got to know one another. That eventually moved to whatsapp, and sooner or later, we were exchanging pictures. Only then did I start to realize that this wasn’t a catfish – she was actually real. And very pretty. At one point, I came clean and said that I’d love to keep chatting, but just to be in the clear, I needed proof she was 18. She showed me her license. So that was that. (She turned 18 last August.)

One night, some dirty chatting turns into the two of us jerking off together on a live video call. She had to be a little quiet, but not too quiet – her bedroom is in the basement of their house. It was really fucking hot – for both of us. After that, she started sending me, and requesting, nudes. Happy to comply. I’d get a quick post-shower shot in the bathroom before she left for school, stuff like that.

Undergrad recruiting trips usually suck. But occasionally, one of them will deep throat your cock, and you can hire her as an intern! True story. [FM]

A few years ago, I was roped into a recruiting trip for my company to a big state school you’ve heard of. These trips usually suck, and since I’m at a relatively senior position, I can get out of them; but the VP of our division asked me personally, so there it was. I flew out to do two days at this big state school – one as a guest lecturer in this class and the second interviewing undergrad kids, mostly for summer internships. (If I’m occasionally vague on some details, it’s because I don’t want to blow up anyone’s job.)

The way this works is the recruiters handle most of the “screener” interviews – kids who apply basically cold, for whom we had no background info. (Dirty secret: most of them are not getting picked unless they really blow someone away.) In the big class I lectured in, a bunch of the kids – mostly sophomores/juniors – came up afterwards to say thanks or hi or whatever. There was this one chick, a sophomore, with wide, dewey eyes, curly dark brown hair, big tits and a slightly trashy-but-hot look. When it was her turn, she introduced herself, gave me those eyes and “just wanted to thank you *so* much” for visiting the class. I made a mental note to remember her name – let’s call her Stephanie. (Not real, obviously.)

[M]y mother-in-law sucks my cock on the regular. Never underestimate the blowjob skills of a sexually frustrated 50-something woman.

I’m a married dad of two kids. My marriage is basically good, except that my wife struggles with mental illness. She’s been on antidepressants for years and has really bad mood swings. She’s a great mom and while our marriage is occasionally a challenge due to those issues, we get through it. She’s a good woman who just suffers from an illness. A big drawback of those meds, however, is that my wife has had basically no sex drive for years. We are a total dead bedroom.

My MIL is great – mid-50s, quite fit, funny, energetic lady. Longer strawberry blondish hair and big, mom-of-three-grown-kids tits. She loves me (so does FIL), both because I’m a decent dude and because I think they understand the challenges that my marriage to their daughter entail. We all have a great relationship. Especially these days.

About two and a half years ago, I popped over to the in-laws house one afternoon to drop off a casserole dish. MIL is around and insists I come in. She was wearing around-the-house shorts and a tank top of some sort. She was in a really good mood, and I realized she was probably a glass or three into a bottle of wine. She let me know that her husband (FIL) was out boating and wouldn’t be back for a while.

I’ve fathered 3 different kids at [M]y local daycare by 3 different mothers, who don’t know about each other

I love getting a girl pregnant. I just do. It’s just such a turn-on, and I know that a lot of guys share this kink of mine. I’m a good-looking guy who lives in a big neighborhood with a lot of bored housewives with numbnuts husbands.

In addition to the two kids I’ve fathered with my wife (one of whom is still in daycare), I carried on an affair with another married woman in our subdivision a few years ago. We stopped using protection because we both hated condoms, and because she was trying to get pregnant anyway with her husband… and lo and behold, she got knocked up. She totally passed it off as her husband’s, even though she was 90% sure it was mine from the beginning. It was so hot to watch her belly grow (and, of course, her tits). We kept fucking throughout most of the pregnancy, and her husband never had any idea. He still thinks the kiddo (who’s now almost 3) is his, even though he looks VERY much like this guy from a few streets over…. ?.

[M]y first sexual experience was with a much older man, and I loved it.

When I was 18, I played in this competitive soccer league that traveled all around our state. During the season, it was what I spent most of my time on – practice 3x/week and games every weekend – so a lot of us either rode our bikes or carpooled to practice/games. One of the trainers on our team was sort of this “team dad” type of guy named Ted who helped with logistics and gave a lot of rides to games/practices. He was in his mid-40s, reasonably fit, but big and kind of gruff type. Beard and burly. *Really* into soccer. Ted was a pretty hands-on guy, in retrospect, but no one ever thought anything of it. He would rub down your legs or ice you or whatever during breaks, and he had some kind of sports medicine certifications.

My parents dropped me off at Ted’s place before a Saturday afternoon game one afternoon, and while I was stretching out in his spare bedroom, he comes in without his shirt on. I thought it was a little odd, but no big deal. He asks if I want a massage. Again, I thought this was a little strange, since we didn’t need to leave for another hour, but hey, he’s the trainer. So I said sure, and he tells me to take my shirt off, too. Asks if I want to take my shorts off. I didn’t really answer that, but took my shirt off.