I will try to keep this as short as possible.
I met this guy and have began hanging out / going on “dates” for 6 times now. He is 30m and I am 26f years old. We always have had a great time together but have had drunk sex twice now with me left thinking it will never work sexually or if I’m being too negative and writing him off already with sex being too new to make any calls…
Non-judgmentally asking, men can you confirm?
Do you finger a girl with your fingers pointing upward or another specific type of way? He finger ed me as if you pointed your index and middle finger simply out in front of you. He did not turn his hand upward the other way and it didn’t feel all that pleasant.
He asked me if I liked to be licked or sucked more. After I answered, he proceeded with telling me it was a “treat” for him. I did not orgasm and feel he isn’t that great at eating pu$$y. In simple words that translate well to a male, what would I verbally express to let him know to do more than to just push his face into me and move his tongue any which way? This takes more effort than that and I’m afraid, along with many other males, he isn’t quite aware of this…