[MF] Cigar Night – A FemDomme Experience

Cigar and My Boy Bitch

Getting into the world and space of Feminine Domination has been a journey for me. One that has changed my life. One that has brought us closer together and one, quite frankly, has saved our marriage.

I saw this image and it reminded me of a scene that we played out not too long ago. I’ve been encouraged to write more about our journey and our experiences, and this is an experience that I will never forget.

We are both working professionals with plenty of disposable income and with COVID, we’ve had to curb many of our favorite things. Cigars and good Whiskey are a part of our relationship and have always been a treat. We live in a large city with several great cigar bars and we both play that up. I always dress in sexy lingerie, heels and as revealing a dress as I can. He’s always in sport coat and slacks and we just love the vibe, the whiskey and the staff are always dressed up. Men are in suits and the ladies are in heels and black dresses. It’s upscale, it’s sexy and we can get a good cigar and a couple of high-end drinks and then go home and make love.

Husband[M] submits to my[F] Girl Gang

My Husband and I have evolved over our 20+ years of marriage and after the kids moved out, we began exploring our kinkier side. We have often spoken about having a threesome or even having him serve my friends and I while my Girl Gang bosses him around like a cheap waitress.

There are a couple of things that would really appeal to me about this Girl Gang fantasy. First of all, I love showing him off. He’s a very attractive man and I know a couple of my girlfriends have a crush on him so that in and of itself is part of it for me. Just knowing they want him turns me on. He’s tall and he’s in great shape. He is fit and regularly exercises but he’s not an obsessive exercise and calorie counting guy that borders narcissism if you know what I mean. He’s healthy and active. He can take his shirt off by the pool with confidence and that generally turn heads. As I said, he is handsome and has deep blue eyes, a thick head of hair with just a touch of gray and my girlfriends always tell me that I am so lucky to have him. In truth we are lucky to have one another. He’s definitely all man in that manly way. He’s witty, has a great sense of humor, is sensitive and still fiercely protective of the kids and I. He owns his own business and is successful and still manages to be shy and humble. He is not overly funny, but he always seems to add something wonderful to every conversation. My favorite thing about him is that he always shows me attention both verbally and physically when we are alone and when we are out with our friends. It never goes unnoticed with my girlfriends. As I mentioned, I know several of my girlfriends have a “crush” on him and if they only knew the things we do at home and how kinky we can be, they’d be shocked.

My Husband submits to my Girl Gang

I saw am image today that inspired me because it closely resembles a fantasy of mine that I have had for several years now. To be clear, this is only a fantasy of mine as we have not yet included a third person into our love making. That said, I have frequently fantasized about including a third person and especially a couple of my girlfriends into our love making in a way where the dynamic included us as dominant and him to serve us. I’d love to have two of my girlfriends come over and have him be our plaything for an evening and have him serve us all while we play with him in any way we can imagine.

My [F] College Road Trip to Vegas and an Older [M]an

My[F] College Road Trip to Vegas and an Older [M]an

My roommate in college was on a tennis scholarship and it was common for us to road trip to other schools to see her play. She was an amazing player and generally won her matches and to boot she was beautiful and had that athletic toned body and long blond hair. The 4 of us would travel as a group and it was a way to blow off some steam and have some fun. We were all attractive, cute and different in our own ways and these road trips allowed us a level on anonymity that dropped our inhibitions and allowed our inner party girl to roam free. We could always find a party and most of the time the road trips were an opportunity to chill, hang out, and chase boys while Amanda played tennis.

[F] I Blew a Cute [M]Underclassmen During a Pool Party.

This is a college story that I was telling my girlfriends this weekend and after a couple of glasses of wine. We started getting a bit drunk and telling some of our most salacious and slutty stories to one another. What came up for me was a time in college that I blew a cute freshman boy at a pool party and the girls wanted the all the details. So here goes.

I was in college and it was late in my college days. I was a Junior and myself and two other girls lived in one of those smaller apartment complexes with two stories that shaped in a horseshoe with a pool in the center. There were maybe 20 – 30 units or so and it was sort of a beachy theme, a few palm trees, pastel paint and every apartment was full of fellow college students. There was a cute freshman boy that had moved in that year and that lived right below me studying engineering. It was common for us to say hello, I’d walk up the stairs and I know damn well he would watch me and sometimes wait for me to open or close the door because the coincidence of he too leaving or coming home could not just be class schedules. He was cute, in amazing shape and boyish in such a cute and irresistible way. Over the semester I kept warming up to him in ways. He was shy, I was older than he and that made it impossible for me not to flirt with him.

Cigar Night with My[F] Husband[M]

My husband has cigar night a couple of times a year with his friends and it’s a big deal for them. They rotate houses and sometimes go to a cigar bar. It’s not a frequent event and he really looks forward to it. The last cigar night got cancelled a couple of days prior and my man was really disappointed. Look, I know who I am and I love the woman I have become and it crushes me when my King is sad. So, I tell him not to plan anything for cigar night. I got it covered. He smiled, but you could tell he was disappointed. So, I plan out an evening all about him, my King, and cigars.

I love cigars too. Not every night but once in a while I do enjoy a cigar, especially with my man. It’s sexy, refined and deeply masculine and I love smoking with the men. I don’t know much about cigars, but I do like them mild and paired with a glass of whisky on the rocks.

My[F] Dinner with my Husband[M]

After the kids moved out, I discovered my inner dominant voice and it opened up a part of me that I was raised to suppress. I love having my man serve me. No apologies here. I fucking love it. And most importantly he deeply enjoys serving me. I am not a dominatrix but I can and do play that from time to time and our play feeds our love and our intimacy.

With COVID, we’ve not been out to our favorite sushi place in months and as things began to open up again, I decided to make dinner plans at our favorite Sushi place. I texted him to meet me there after work. I have not been out in a while and was feeling excited and wanted to sex things up a bit and I dressed in a beautiful blue dress above the knee, low cut to accentuate my tits, black heels, black stockings, black garter belt and matching black lacy bra and panties. Hair, nails etc. I Uber to the restaurant about 15 min early and go to the bar and order a Martini, extra dirty and chat with the bartender for a bit and by chance another man started chatting me up. Normally I’d just shut it down but right then and there, I get this idea for play. I quickly text my husband to meet me at the bar but sit away from me. I told him to find some place at the bar close to me but act like you don’t know me.