NYC Reddit Swinger’s Meetup (and After-Party!) – fmfmfm [PICS]

You may remember a while back I hosted a reddit meetup for swingers in NYC. It went a little differently than I had anticipated, but it was even better than I had hoped (just in different ways). My guy friend who came with me that night (pictured with me here) wrote our story below. My thoughts are (in parentheses)!

For your enjoyment, here's some photos of me inspired by some photos sent by one of the event attendees. If you want to email my a gc to Victorias Secret, I can keep the photos coming, just DM me plz :)


There was much anticipation accompanying this night, as several couples had confirmed to attend our Reddit meet up. We had explored with other couples and had a great time at a sex club before. (We met on reddit, and wanted to meet likeminded people either for fun or just to share stories and meet new friends.) /u/supergirly and I hosted, greeting the 4 other couples, making sure our drinks were full and occasionally venturing to the dance floor. (We met up with everyone at a divey bar in NYC's lower east side. I thought everyone who attended was attractive in the photos they sent, but as often happens they were even better in person. I was so excited to finally meet everyone in the flesh!) Despite our common interest, we mainly focused on our getting to know each other, sharing fun stories and enjoying each other’s company. The night started to wind down and the original plan was to go to a sex club afterwards.

Guys imagine girls’ sleepovers including pillow fights, but ours were way better than that [f/f]

In high school I had been a bit of a goody-two-shoes. Always had my head in books, didn't have much interest in partying, definitely didn't explore my sexuality (with the exception of studying abroad in Europe during the summers, but those are stories for another time!). It wasn't until I was about 19 or 20 that I started dipping my toe in the water.

The summer after sophomore year I decided to take the summer off of studying, internships, etc. The choice was made in part because I was well overdue to let loose and enjoy college life, but also because I had a new friend in my life. She acted as wild as I always felt inside. We would go out together 5 nights a week, and made great wingwomen for one another. My college dorm was 8 blocks away from her apartment off campus downtown Chicago. Most nights, we crashed in her tiny apartment. When I say tiny, I mean smaller than most hotel rooms. It was a "quaint" 400 square foot studio. Her full-size bed occupied the majority of the living area. Luckily her linens were so soft and silky we didn't mind using it as a makeshift couch as well. We spent many hot summer nights and days in it, hungover and laughing and sharing details about the previous night. Who we flirted with, who we traded numbers with, and many relevant liaisons of varying degrees.