“No names, just sex” [M]35 & [F]24

I wanted to share another OKCupid success story [my last one is here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/7lqc0n/mf_lets_meet_right_now/).

 

After messing around on the site for a few months, I’d gotten a good rhythm down. I knew the type of profile that would likely be most receptive to what I was offering (a one time, somewhat anonymous hookup), and I was starting to get enough incoming messages so that I could be a bit selective.

 

Still though, when I saw someone that caught my eye, I wasn’t shy about messaging first.

 

In this case, that someone was a tomboyish 24 year old Asian woman, who lived about 3 miles from where I was. On the surface, there wasn’t anything particularly remarkable about her, but she seemed normal on the outside, and based on our 98% match in the “sex” category, I guessed that she probably had a freaky streak under that vanilla exterior.

 

As it happened, I was right. And after a couple of routine messages on OkCupid, we realized we were both looking for a hookup (and nothing else), so we shifted over to Kik to swap photos and talk a bit more fluidly.

[MF] Let’s meet right now…

About two years back, I set up an OkCupid account with the sole purpose of meeting random women for quick, one time hookups. I know lots of people implicitly have OkCupid accounts for the purpose of hooking up, but in this case, I was not subtle at all. I stated outright that I was looking for one time encounters, no strings, no getting to know one another, no possibility for a relationship.

 

To my surprise, I got a lot of responses. Each day, I’d get at least two or three messages from “regular” girls, who were intrigued by the idea and wanted to chat about how it could work.

 

In most cases, we’d exchange a few flirty messages, talk about sexual likes and dislikes, and then it’d fizzle out before we got to the “let’s meet” part. Occasionally, things would progress to text or Kik, and we’d exchange some more pointed dirty talk, and even some nude photos, but somehow or another we’d never get to the meeting part. It was still a lot of fun actually to have such flirtations with these girls, but at some point, I wanted to meet and make it real.