My wife is all over the place when it comes to sex. She feels like she had an almost unnatural obsession with it when she was a child, but then grew up in a very religious household where her Mom taught her that intercourse is only for makin’ babies, not something to be enjoyed. So now, as an adult, she goes through long periods where she is extremely prudish, followed by shorter periods where she acts like some sexual demon. (During one of these periods we even went to a swinger’s club and had sex in front of other people!)
About a month ago she told me she wanted to be my “sex slave” but she was coming from a bad place when she said it, and thanks to feedback I received in /rsex I didn’t follow through with this request.
Anyway, Friday morning her sexual side came out in a big way. She didn’t bring up the “sex slave” thing again but she said she wanted me to take her, and use her any way I wanted to. She was rubbing up against me in bed when she said this so I knew she was serious. I was pretty surprised because she hates the idea of being “submissive”, but she explained that it wasn’t about GIVING me control… it was about me TAKING control. This is something I rarely do in our relationship and I guess the idea was turning her on for some reason.