Someone from r/swingers asked me to post this here as well so here ya go.
TL/DR : Wife and I married for 10+ years. High school sweethearts. Never dated, let alone had sex with anyone else. Went to swingers club expecting, at most, a hard swap with a couple. Ended up in middle of orgy.
Wife and I are both in our low thirties and were high school sweethearts. Married for more than 10 years. We’ve never had sex with anyone else. We’ve never dated anyone else. All we’ve ever known is each other. A few months ago we decided to try the LS out and then Covid happened. Yay! After some waiting we decided to dive in and finally go to a club.
We decided on Colette’s in NOLA for our first ever LS event. We have a Kasidie profile and luckily had made a few acquaintances via the events page prior to attending and that made having someone to talk with in the club MUCH easier. Upon arrival around 9:30 we were greeted by the staff and given the standard tour. Afterwards, we went back to get a drink and do the newbie (I assume) stand and stare.