So my gf and I, together 9 years, have always been pretty kinky. Lately, we’ve gotten into sharing. We’ve had a handful of threesomes over the last 6 months or so (mmf and mff), and they’ve all been amazing. The guys we’ve had have all been strangers, but the girls were her friends. She loved it, but felt the encounters with the men were a little impersonal compared to the times with her friends. So I told her that I’ve been fantasizing about her maybe doing it without me there, and that she could find someone she knows. She’s really into the idea, and we dirty talk it in bed and texting for a few weeks.
A few days ago, she makes an off hand comment about a coworker looking good today. A fairly attractive black guy. I play it up, asking if she’s considering him as a candidate. She says possibly, and we dirty talk it a bit, ending with me telling her that I’m comfortable with whatever she wants to do. As the day continues, she informs me that’s he’s being rather flirty as well, and that she is flirting back with him. They end up making plans to get together later that night while I’m at work.