This is a repost that I had shared before from a non-burner account (rookie mistake) and ended up taking down. Giving it another go. First post here and I’m happy to be able to share.
I moved to Florida a several years ago for a new job (like half the country, it seems) and immediately hopped on the dating apps. Quick details out of the way: I’m in my early 30s, pretty good looking/clean cut, former college athlete (read: in decent shape w/o having to work out), 5’10, am blessed with a solid 8 inches (unbiased estimate from a recent fling), work in education/consulting, and generally have my shit together. I have the added gift of coming across as “wholesome”, but in reality…I actually am pretty wholesome, to be honest. But I also have a very non-vanilla side.
All of that being said, I learned quickly that I attracted a very specific type in FL: single moms (and hotwives, but that’s a different story for another time…). I’m guessing it’s a combination of working in education and generally being a pretty approachable person, but whatever it is…I’d say 50% of my matches were in that category.