[MF] Today my (M) girlfriend (F) broke her record of orgasm denial

Me and my girlfriend have tried to increase the length of her orgasm denial for a long, long time. In the beginning it was just for a few hours, to a full day and now, a now full week. Being denied for a full week is really, really hard and frustrating. And it takes a lot of attention, care and communication. And to make matters worse, I am extremely turned on by her frustration, how she gives up her pleasure for my sake, so I did not make it easy for her. I need to encourage, praise and support her in her orgasm denial. Telling her how grateful I am for her giving up her pleasure, being in this state of frustration for me.

As usual when we are in an period of orgasm denial, the day started with me spooning her and starting to tease her. I kissed her, bit her neck, let my hands slide along her body and thighs. It’s incredible how, the longer she is denied, the bigger the physical response is from my teasing. Today she started breathing heavy and writhing her body just from the teasing alone. As my fingers passed beside her labia she tried desperately to reposition herself, to make my finger touch, if only for a second, her swollen and aching clitoris.

[MF] When I (M) found out my girlfriend (F) might have an orgasm control fetish

So me and my girlfriend had not been dating very long when this story took place, we had just started hanging out more at each others place, it was at this fun and exciting early stage of an relationship when everything felt new. And I’m not sure about you guys, but we were not very good at being open and communicative about our kinks and fantasies early on. Maybe it was because we were unexperienced, or just not comfortable with sharing too much. I know I wasn’t, and my girlfriend for sure was not either.

So let me tell you it came as a shock when I found out that my girlfriend had some sort of orgasm control fetish, but I guess I should have picked up on a few of the signs. Whenever we had sex she always asked:

“Can I cum?” or “Do you want me to cum?” while looking right into my eyes.

Well, I did not pick up on the signs very well. Instead, each time I replied with a simple “yes, of course!” or something like that, I guess I just didn’t understand why she wouldn’t want to cum?

[MF] Helping my (M) girlfriend (F) relax with massage, praise and masturbation

Me (20’s M) and my girlfriend (20’s F) have been together for a few years now. One of the best feelings being with my partner is that I just want her to have everything, and knowing that she is relaxed and feel safe brings me such great joy . In bed we both are into BDSM, I personally love praise dom, being in control of her pleasure while giving her praise and encouragement. But after a long stressful day at work, all she needs is attention, love and affection. I would say that this post is not as heavy focus on sex or so, but more on comforting and taking care of my girlfriend, so if you are looking for something more hard, this is not the post.

Yesterday she got home from work, it’s her first week back at the restaurant after the vacation and things have already kicked of, it’s so much work and people just doesn’t give her a break. As soon as she walked through the door I could see it in her eyes, she was exhausted, tired and just wanted to lay down an stare into the roof for hours. I went up and hugged her and gave her a kiss, helping her with her jacket and bag.