Hopefully this doesn’t come across as a humblebrag – not our intention. I thought this might be useful for anyone in a similar spot, or anyone who is curious to hear a newcomers first time from the wife’s point-of-view.
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After talking about it with my husband for almost a year we finally made it happen! It was actually a really great experience, and while I was afraid I might regret it a little or have second thoughts, it ended up being a ton of fun!
Some quick background. My husband and I are both 26 and started dating at 17. Neither of us has had a ton of partners before of our relationship, which we both regret to some degree, although it took us a long time to admit it. Don’t get me wrong, we love each other to death, I think we both just wished we had a little more “sexual exploration”. That got us talking about swinging / hotwifing – which we didn’t have a term for at the time – and eventually we were passively interested in trying it out, but were generally too busy or intimidated to actually do it.