I was 27 at the time at the time and I was out clubbing with my friend. We lived in a small town so we had to get a 30 minute taxi to the nearest clubs. We went out for food first and then hit the clubs.
My friend was talking with a guy most of the night so I went to sit at the bar. A tall muscular older man 35 man with short hair approached me and we started talking, as the night went on our conversation got more and more personal. He asked me what my kinks were, I said nothing. I then asked him the same thing, he said bondage. My initial reaction to this was WOW. He didn’t look like a bondage guy at all. I didn’t really know what bondage was at the time so he explained and we talked even more. He then told me he had a few bondage toys/equipment at home and asked if I wanted to check them out while smiling. I said sure why not my friend looked fine so I went with him as he lived nearby.