I don’t consider myself a bisexual by any means and with the exception of some experimenting I did in college nearly all of my sexual experiences have included a man there. However, having studied the question of sexuality in college I always thought that the question of sexuality wasn’t black and white. If society didn’t make people identify their sexuality more people would consider themselves sexually fluid or at least more open to figuring themselves out.
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten even more comfortable with my body and sexuality. Having recently gotten out of a long term relationships I found myself liberated and started to catch myself thinking about other women.
That’s where r/randomactsofmuffdive comes in. After a weeks of curiosity I posted on another account about my curiosity and desire to experiment. I didn’t think much about it because I didn’t think anything would come out of it, but I was wrong.
Within minutes my inbox was filled with both men and women inquiring about what my goal was and if they could help. Nearly all of the messages were respectful but one stuck out. Janet, women around my age, who lived a couple miles from me. We chatted and verified and realized we had more in common then we thought. We went to the same gym chain, liked the same movies, and hated how our local park recently banned dogs.