I have a r4r success story, from about a month ago so some details are a bit blurry.
He posted in my local r4r sub: M4F looking for a babygirl who needs a daddy, in town for next weekend. I messaged him and we chatted a bit, exchanged kinks (we shared all the same ones) and some info and pictures (he’s super hot) before quickly deciding to meet when he came. We talked more for the next week and got ourselves very worked up. We decided to meet at a coffee shop before going on to an adult toy store and then to his condo. I ended up running late and so we decided to skip the coffee date and meet outside the adult toy store (though he thoughtfully got me a coffee anyway). We got a dildo and a butt plug from the store, then walked to his condo, chatting and occasionally stopping to make out/sneak a grope.