Long story short, I’ve been having a really hard time recently. I’m in school for accounting, work part time, and just broke up with my boyfriend four months ago. I haven’t been with a guy or gone out on a date since then and just feel really lonely in general. I also have a high libido so I’m constantly in the mood.
My best friend (who’s also my room mate) has her boyfriend over most nights which makes me a little jealous sometimes. He goes out of his way to spoil her, help her with home work, make her meals. They also have sex quite often. Our walls are paper thin (cheap apartment) so most of the time they do it in the shower so I don’t hear, but lately I’ve been hearing them most nights in the other room. It’s bad enough that I haven’t had sex in four months, and even worse laying in bed listening to them go out it.
We’re quite open so I decided to vent my frustrations and tell her how miserable I’ve been. She because very defensive and said “we’re both paying rent I should be able to do what I want”. She also brought up the fact that their love life is “private” so I shouldn’t get a say. Which started a bit of an argument and we weren’t talking for a few days.