I’m a 45 year old white male, married, living in NY. All my life I’ve found myself the dominant one in sexual relationships. I don’t mean to say that I’m necessarily dominant, but rather, most women I’ve been with were very submissive, and that’s ok. My current wife, I love, I love her like crazy, but she, too, is submissive. She also isn’t very adventuresome. That’s ok though. Sex doesn’t define my love for her. I do, however, miss some acts and doing some things that are off limits with my wife, so I’ve taken to seeing escorts. I really don’t need a lecture on how this is dangerous and/or cheating. I always use protection and would never endanger my wife. As for cheating, no, I don’t see it that way. I’m doing stuff with the escorts that I can’t do at home, not finding comfort in another or just doing it to be with someone different.
Ok. So, as I’ve said, I’ve always been the dominant one. Even when I first started going to escorts, it was the same, I just took the lead because that’s what’s expected. One time I was with an escort that I see regularly and she is VERY submissive and we had a great session. Hair pulling, choking, slapping, rimming, foot licking, greek, etc… It was great, she was into it and we had a blast.