To be fair, with this ex I’m just as much to blame as she is for our continued meetings over the years. When each of us becomes single we text the other and let them know (just in case we’re feeling horny). I recently became single and messaged her. She replied back with sarcasm and we texted for a little. Nothing sexual.
A few days later she asked if I was busy. It was 10am on a weekday. I had taken the day off of work and she was off work that day. I told her I would come by and we could get a coffee and catch up. She venmoed me money and told me to grab the coffee on the way.
When I got the her place she let me in. She was wearing blue sweat pants and a gray shirt. She looked like she had showered and put those on on purpose. We sat on the couch and talked about her recent hook ups. We always loved to talk about new things were into and new experiences. She stated she got really good at giving blowjobs and loved to give them now. I jokingly said I would love one right now.