[MF] I (21F) had sex with another man and my bf actually liked it

There’s a club that I often go to with my female friends when we have a girls night out. We usually try to stay away from guys and just enjoy each other’s company since all of us are in serious relationships and we just wanna have some girl time.

There was this one guy though that seemed like he was always there. WE had all noticed him since he was quite attractive. One time he came to our table and bought us all drinks. He was very kind and didn’t actually make any moves on any of us. We started talking and I asked him if he came often to this club. (As if I hadn’t noticed him before) He said he used to work here about 10 years ago and most of the staff are his friends. Now he works in an office but he visits the club quite often to hang out with his ex colleagues and he also often brought some of his knew colleagues to the club. I asked him how old he was since to me, being 21, 10 years ago seemed like forever ago. He was 36 and he used to work there while completing his master’s degree.