Before it became unusable, OKCupid was an amazing way to meet women. No fees, no message limits, it was perfect. One night while I was recovering from surgery I connected with Tammy. I was 38 at the time, she was 49, 5-4, petite, red hair, and green eyes. We got to talking and I found that she was divorced about 10 years, and lived alone about 45 min away from me. The fact that I was married didn’t slow her down, and found that despite her very reserved and somewhat innocent appearance, she was quite adventurous.
In the course of talking, I mentioned to her that one of my favorite fantasies was to meet a woman for the first time with her waiting in bed for me blindfolded. Shockingly, she thought that would be fun, and suggested that maybe we give it a try once I was fully recovered, to which I immediately agreed.
2 very long months later, I was all healed and ready to go. We planned for a weeknight after work, so I left the office, grabbed some dinner and showed up at her place around 7. I parked the car and texted her that I was there, and her response was limited to, “Apt 34, door is unlocked”.