I(30F) first moved to this city 7.5 years ago. I was incredibly curious of bdsm and never really had a chance to explore it. I joined Fetlife almost immediately, and started talking to potential Doms / people I could learn from. I was 22 and met a man 39. We met for coffee once, he made me feel comfortable almost immediately. We talked through things I wanted to try, bondage, forced orgasm, and I made sure to tell him that I enjoy anal a lot. He suggested I come over for dinner and a “play date”. I was enthralled so I agreed.